People lie these days like it's nothing.
How can my own kids lie to me?
Those bastards!
Ji-ae is waiting with dinner.
Stop it.
- They did that so we wouldn't worry. - They shouldn't lie.
Everyone in this world lies.
You lied too.
When did I?
To my family, you told them we already slept together before marriage.
That we did it many times.
You lied, and made me get beat.
That lie is nothing compared to the one you told.
- So we lived in love. - Yes you really made me love you.
You're right.
It wasn't me, you wanted to sleep together too.
I felt bad for you, because no one liked you.
Stop lying.
You were crazy about me.
Of course.
Father is the same as us.
Are we little children?
It's not like we stole from our piggy banks.
I'm not like Hwi-gyu.
I was 8 years old.
How can father still come out and beat us?
We're all old now too.
Once a father always a father.
We can't compare our ages to father.
- No father is like him. - Our father is stuck in the olden days.
Just use conversation.
You should of use conversation, instead you ran away.
I was so fed up.
Don't ever do that again.
You have so many people in your life.
Start counting.
Us three, parents, Ji-ae, So-young...
Don't count, just multiply, 14 people.
No there is 15 people.
Yea we were all worried.
- Mom and dad found out today. - That is a bad thing to do.
All of us were so worried and thought bad things.
You were so selfish.
Sorry.
Don't do it again, ok?
- Alright. - Like Joong-gi, it becomes a habit.
- Why are you mentioning that? - I was using him as an example.
Baby.
We were about to get beaten to death by dad.
Hwi-jae.
How did father find out?
- Mom found out. - Did Ji-ae tell her?
Don't blame her.
I'm hungry, what will we eat?
I only accept lies from little children.
Lying is a bad thing to do.
My life is my responsibility.
How can you wine and say I'm hungry, I'm sick.
No matter what you solve your own problems.
He left because he needed air.
How can he do that?
Does Yoo-jung chock him?
- Does he suffocate him? - She is a scary woman.
She doesn't know how to be reasonable.
She makes her husband poor and makes him stay home.
How can he stand living like that?
He can go for walks and stop by the gas station.
No one told him to stay home.
He used to work all day.
He used to work and now he can't, imagine how he feels.
He's not the only one, look at Hwi-jae.
They are different.
The past is the past.
They can't just sit home and complain, he needs to deal with it.
I lost my dad at 8, and my mom at 17.
It was just me paying off my mother's debt and getting to this point.
- Just eat. - They don't know what huger is.
He was a manager, that is good enough.
- He can't adjust. - That's enough.
My head hurts.
You always say that.
- Eat and go. - I'm not going.
You need to go to work.
Did you call Hyo-joo?
- Yes. - Is she coming?
No.
She's so disrespectful.
We're living apart.
Hey.
I'm going to stay her and she will come on the weekends.
Why?
Why are you doing that?
I'm going to stay here.
It's better than just you two.
So I can be the one that ruins your marriage?
Newlyweds are until your baby comes.
Or make her move here too.
She won't want to.
She's lived a lonely life.
She doesn't want to get hurt anymore, she says you're scary.
- You never liked her. - She is the scary one.
She told me to go and get therapy.
- That was for your own good. - So she only wants to come on the weekends?
That is so absurd.
If her husband says so, she she just obey him.
How can you allow that?
- You should have treated her like a daughter. - A daughter in law is not a daughter.
Then take her in as your daughter in law.
- I let you guys get married. - That's not what I meant.
I knew she was brazen, but this is too much.
How is she normal? She should be here.
Even if she doesn't like it, when her husband tells her to she should follow.
I need to follow her wishes.
In most cases, husbands need to side with their wife not their mothers.
Don't blame her.
Be quiet! I don't understand her.
You're home?
Did you eat?
What?
Why?
I feel so sad, and lonely.
We got married so we can sleep and wake up together.
What is this.
I had lunch with my friends.
All of them said they can't understand you.
How can he do that to you?
I told them that it was something you needed to do.
As I said it, I became humiliated.
You are all I have.
Its like you abandoned me.
It's true, you did.
I thought my loneliness would go away after marriage.
I expected that to happen.
I feel betrayed.
If I knew this would have happened,
I wouldn't have married you.
I'm drinking beer.
I'm hungry, but I don't feel like eating.
Beer is like water.
Don't come, you're mom will say more mean things.
This is hard on me too.
I don't feel good leaving you there.
Sorry, I'm having hard time too.
But we are still young,
they are my parents.
I,
can't ignore my dad.
I need to protect my dad.
I don't understand, I can't explain it.
After I packed my underwear and socks,
I can't explain that feeling.
My wife is was sleeping.
The whole word was sleeping.
I was walking towards the city.
That feeling of lonesome.
The pain that clawed my heart.
That feeling...
It was the first time I felt that kind of pain.
Stop eating.
- One more. - Ji-ae will kill me.
- She won't find out. - I will tell her.
- I only had 3 wings. - We will all die, leave him.
If he lives one more year.
Let him eat what he wants and die early.
- Don't say that it's not you. - We are the same.
How can he live off of vegetables and beans.
Ji-ae loves you so much.
She wants to live a long healthy life with you.
Love, love?
What is love?
It's not love, but lies.
How can you say that?
- One more. - Okay.
- Poor me some. - Here.
How did you survive 3 days with $70?
- I sold the camera Dae-gi gave me. - I knew it.
I had serious thoughts.
- Does you life depend on that wing? - I'm almost done.
- What did you think? - That I,
I should ever return.
I should just go to a small town.
Change my name and just fish until I die.
- Hey. - It was a serious thought.
You should get a psychological exam.
Am I crazy?
It's not just for crazy people.
But people who need to cope with stresses of a day to day life.
- Can I have more. - Yes of course.
- Hwi-myung. - Yes?
You think you would be happy with that life?
I'm not sure.
I wasn't confident.
- I am not strong enough. - What will you do with being strong?
I don't want to do anything.
I just want revenge.
- Revenge who? - My self.
Why yourself, our parents bragged about you.
- Our parents are ignorant. - Do you want to get hit?
Why?
You think we're just letting you say anything?
What revenge?
You've gone mad.
Stop it.
All of this is happened because you let it.
You used to brag about Yoo-jung's stinginess.
We will live the best.
We have so many savings accounts.
You said that!
I didn't know she would be this bad.
- How dare you wine? - He's in a bad state right now.
- He's not normal? - Hey am I crazy then?
You handled the situation wrong, it was your mistake.
You should just be happy with your financings.
Why did you leave and say what revenge?
Why are you yelling? Be quiet.
If you did something wrong, you should feel sorry.
I'm 10 years older than you.
You bastard how dare you talk back?
- How can you say that. - This is between us men.
What do you mean between you men?
I'll handle this.
No one can fix this for you.
I know.
You need to solve it yourself.
Think of the olden days.
You used to like each other.
You would miss each other.
- She wasn't that evil. - Don't say that.
Those feelings get expressed and its hard on her too.
I feel bad for my wife.
If she met someone better she would live a better life.
She is to good for the life that she has.
We live with love, and then kids,
and then we just grow old.
Hello there.
I'm so happy to see you come back.
Why did you leave and come back?
- Was it good to get some air. - Yes I'm feeling better now.
That brat, she drank so much and now look at you, you're fine.
I want to go and rip her mouth.
Nothing.
- We're you exercising. - Are you a ghost?
You aren't a ghost.
Hwi-gyu was so worried about you.
Good to see you back.
- Congratulations. - Thanks.
- I'm going inside. - Have a nice evening.
- Did you guys go to a fortune teller? - What do you mean?
- Did they say I died? - No...
Why did she call me a ghost?
- You are still here? - Yes.
- Bye. - Bye.
Why didn't you go?
- You had dinner at his house? - No at Hwi-gyu's house.
Mom is waiting with dinner.
Where did you go?
Just here and there.
I went to the south, the west.
Did you feel better?
Yes.
I was really shocked.
I'm sorry.
- I was immature. - No not that.
- You and mom. - It was just a bad time.
I needed my own time.
Did you eat?
- Yes. - Than go home, Hyo-joo is waiting.
We're living separately.
- Tell him to go home. - Dad.
Can't you hear me?
- I have nothing to give him. - Go, go.
- I talked to Hyo-joo already. - Marriage isn't a joke.
You can't live a part.
It's not his fault.
I think that Hyo-joo is the problem.
If you were here, would you want to live with yourself?
You don't know how to be nice to someone.
No daughter in law would want to be near you.
You want to scold her to death?
- I'm not enough. - You have a problem to.
How can you say that?
You both have big problems.
You haven't seen they way she treats me.
Your mom keeps quiet when you're here, and I just say it whenever.
Look at her, keeping quite trying to be the victim.
Dad stop.
What?
You think I came back to forgive, no way.
I won't let your mom drag me down.
I will take back my place.
Look at her.
I can't believe I was with her for 30 years.
Dad you say mean things to her.
And mom you're are equally mean.
You are like enemies why do you live like this?
It's our problem, stay out of it.
Go back to Hyo-joo.
Make him go.
I think Hyo-joo should come.
Don't think about anything.
Just let him go.
- Want them divorced? - I!
Won't go,
until you two reconcile. I will break up with her.
I won't leave.
You know how stressful it is when parents don't get along?
I want to go back to the way it was.
Mom respected you, and you loved her.
How did this happen?
Why are you like this?
After I lost my job,
- your mom disrespects me. - Don't blame me.
You started accusing me.
- When did I? - When did I?
Mom.
Don't make him sleep there.
- I can't take it. - I didn't kick him out.
- He was the one that left. - Then you sleep there.
Anyways,
- don't make him sleep there. - He can come sleep if he wants.
Mom.
Your dad made the the cat chasing the rat.
What rat?
You don't do anything, why are your hands dirty.
Did you go somewhere dusty?
Do you see me?
You see me?
Yes you do.
I'm your mom.
Smell me, here.
You know it now?
It's perfume? You're smart.
It's lotion, my favorite herb lotion.
It's my smell.
Yes?
- Grandpa wants her. - She's washing her hands.
- Her hands were dirty. - Finish up.
What did aunt talk to you about?
You need to talk to her so she can speak quickly.
We all talk, don't worry.
My friends kid didn't speak until she was 3.
She doesn't really talk much.
Be like your aunt, she spoke so much.
- Lets go. - Grandma.
- I'll take her. - It's ok.
You're knees hurt what if you drop her.
I'm not drunk why would I drop her?
I'm just saying.
I am old, you think I would drop her.
- Grandma. - Yes?
- What? - Did grandpa wash his hands?
I guess he did.
Did he not?
After your uncles did he just forget?
- He needs to wash before touching a baby. - I will ask him.
- Yoo-jin is here. - Put her down.
Did you wash your hands?
Why?
Did you?
Go and wash them.
- I can do it later. - Its because of Yoo-jin.
You touch gas,
it's not good for the baby.
I washed my hands.
An actress he worked on treated him to dinner.
That girl in the drama.
- She's in a drama? - I've seen her somewhere.
Some drama.
- What girl is he dating? - I don't think he is.
He hasn't been on a date in 2 years.
He doesn't talk much on the phone either.
- Maybe he has a STD. - Hey! Don't say that!
Just kidding.
- I want water. - What?
- He wants water for medicine. - Ok.
Lee Ji-ae.
Ms. Lee.
What is it?
- Are you lending someone money? - Then?
I'm scared.
I...
Did you co-sign a loan?
Thank you for living with me.
I wanted to say that.
Don't say anything because I am embarrassed to say it.
I wanted to say this.
Thanks.
- For living with me. - You are much better.
You are so much better than I.
We are the same, that's why we are married.
Thank you for not making me run away.
You love me as a husband and dad.
- You respect me. - You're making me nervous.
- What mess did you make? - I didn't do anything.
That was long time ago.
It was 6 years ago.
You said that if I do that again you will keep me out in my underwear.
- You promise? - I do.
What did you feel something?
Yes.
It would be horrible if the closet person is the one that you hate.
I know.
Its hard getting old Hwi-myung never wanted to come back.
It must be so hard on him.
- Yoo-jung is having a hard time. - I really like and love you.
- I don't know when you and I are different. - Okay that's enough.
- I will remember this when you are bad. - Wait a minute.
- Does love change? - Yes love changes.
- We changed. - No love doesn't change.
- It's just not priority. - I guess so.
Lets,
share a passionate kiss.
I,
want to kiss you.
No thanks.
- Mom. - What?
What?
- What? - What's wrong with you?
Ok I'll send you some.
Be quiet.
I'm going to stay here.
What?
Ok thanks, thanks.
She's well.
- She is so annoying. - Why are you giving her that?
Hey.
We need to share our stuff.
Its good to give and take.
Want to give her nothing?
Is it too little?
She said that she prayed all night.
Put it on.
Making money is easy.
I used to see her a lot.
- Friendship... - Stay still.
We were best friends.
When you get surgery,
then they die.
- Are you done? - Yes 1 minute.
- I'm bored come in. - Okay.
Is he a kid getting bored?
Come in.
I don't want to.
I said come in and sleep.
Stop making me the bad guy.
Just go to sleep.
I'm comfortable here.
Stop.
Stop, it I don't want too!
You are so evil.
Just listen to me.
Don't make me the bad person.
Just leave me.
I won't change my mind.
I won't leave until it's seems ok to leave.
I said it's ok.
I can't fix this myself.
You need to be more easy going.
I don't like how you blame me for all of this.
Your father doesn't like me.
Do you?
Your dad was the only man I had.
It's the same for dad.
I don't know.
- Good morning. - I slept well.
Eat.
You act like a child.
You gave me this hot coffee.
- I said to wait 7 minutes. - Then you complain to give you some.
Are you coming tomorrow?
I want to see Hyo-joo.
It's tomorrow anyways.
- Just spend the weekend with her. - I'm bringing my stuff tomorrow.
- Stop. - Just spend the weekend and go.
We don't have a problem.
Fine then.
We will show you not to worry.
I have a plan.
If we were to divorce I would never put up with this.
We will about it.
Ok, please.
You too mom.
- You eat later on? - Yes one hour later.
- What? - Hwi-jae called,
dad is sick.
Why Becuase of you.
Go to work.
Say bye and go.
- We're going to work. - Ok.
Have some of this.
Lift him up.
Father, father.
Death is almost at my door.
I feel like he's here.
Grandma says that he ate some rice cake before bed.
He just has some indigestion.
- It's not indigestion. - He just fell on the way to the bathroom.
Why?
He said that all his strength seemed to go away.
He has no strength.
He used all his energy yesterday.
Why is he like this suddenly?
I'm cold.
You guys go to work, we will take care of grandpa.
Okay.
It's because of you.
I left because I didn't want to see you.
What do you mean?
- Don't say that, he will be sad. - Just ignore things.
You always butt in.
- He said something mean. - Let the brothers handle it.
- That... - Just let it go.
- We're here. - Go on in.
- Why is he like that? - Father we are here.
Come in.
Father open your eyes.
You look dead.
If this is my fault, I'm sorry.
I was immature.
- You didn't go to work? - No.
- I look dead? - Yes.
Many people look dead.
There is no dead person that speaks.
All old people are like that.
- Are you really sick? - No.
I see.
I feel really bad.
I wasn't happy.
My heart was so complicated.
Sorry.
- I was wrong to hide it. - You kept it from me.
- You ran away. - I just went out for some air.
I just left the house.
That isn't running away.
And you guys all lied to me.
That was Hwi-gyu's fault.
The two of them agreed to keep it from you.
I just went along with it.
I know.
I know you.
And you are the lying one.
And you just go along with anything.
I'm telling you, I don't like any of you.
I know that mother had to say it.
With you I feel like I have two mother in laws,
This is our couple's problem.
So?
I shouldn't get involved?
Have I ever done that to you?
Oh no! You don't get involved you are the easiest sister in law there is.
Hwi-myung has a different personality than Hwi-jae.
- You don't know him better than I. - He was in middle school when I married.
I have lived with him for so long.
I know that he is sensitive.
Then you shouldn't blame me.
Wait,
when did I?
All I said was to let it go for the sake of this family.
She didn't do that.
If you think I was meddlesome than fine.
Then can't you live quietly?
You made us worry, mother worry and father faint.
- I didn't run away. - That's not what she meant.
Be quiet!
- You don't understand.. - Stop acting immature.
- What do you mean? - Stop talking back to me.
- You do that to Ji-ae. - We are talking right now.
Okay.
So you think that,
- Hwi-myung just left? - I know that it's my fault.
I didn't give him ribs.
But how can he get mad over not eating ribs?
- That isn't normal. - This is your problem.
How can you think it's because of ribs?
After he retired you don't let him spend money, or go out.
Is that all?
You always, yell at him for anything he says.
- You think I had nothing to say? - He should listen to me.
- How can he listen to someone that scolds him? - I am not doing this for my benefit.
It's because you are over doing it.
I know you grew up poor, but how can you do this?
I don't understand it.
I am more afraid of being poor than a tiger.
You want to hide cash under your bed and die of starvation?
That is a fool.
I will use it when I'm 70.
Who said you'll live till you are 70?
How will you know that?
Mom,
Yoo-jin needs her bath.
I'm talking, can't you see that?
Don't bother with them, they will be as they are and die that way.
Don't worry about it, she will never change.
She is so rude.
You should go to the hospital.
You should go.
Call doctor Han and tell him that father is sick.
Want to go?
- I need to use the bathroom. - Get off.
You come here.
Mom doesn't have strength.
He rides his bike all the time, what happened?
He's disappointed in us.
You should say something.
What?
That you won't ever run away again.
We were getting beat.
It must be fun to live with all your family.
My mom is tired, but feel safe with them.
- Why is your mom tired? - My dad is the oldest.
And my grandparents are with me so my uncles and aunts come over.
- My mom needs to make food and tea. - You're family just get along well.
We see them often.
It's hard for so many people to get along.
My grandpa wanted,
all 3 brothers to live in the same neighborhood.
- His dream came true. - We lived with them.
My uncle went into business with him and moved in.
My other uncle was the last to come.
What business did your grandpa do?
Food, he had soup restaurant.
- Now he has a gas station. - Is he rich?
I guess, he made some money in his youth.
Yoo-jin's mom isn't looking for you?
- We're over. - Was she pretty?
- No she was like Hulk. - Then why did you sleep with her?
I was drunk.
I gave you medicine.
What is your name?
What is today?
Your surgery went well, rest.
I miss you, I miss you.
I want to see you.
- Who's so childish? - Why are you looking at my phone?
What girl leaves a poem on your phone?
- She likes poetry. - Romance poems?
She is a poet, and professor.
The one with the lace dress and flower in her hair?
No she wears raggedy clothes.
Hey bastard.
- Why do you always raise your voice? - Why do you look at my phone?
- Then you laugh about it. - When did I?
And,
stop calling me names.
You seem really mad.
I am just replying to your useless comments.
You're hot when you're mad.
I heard that since I was 5.
The amnesia clinic wants me.
You wish I would go?
It's your choice?
Should I go to a different hospital and ask him out?
- Who? - Mr. Kim.
Don't make him move and calm down.
- He wants to move? - To avoid you.
Why are you laughing?
Don't move, I won't harass you.
- I was just joking. - Forget it don't move.
- Why did you tell her that? - Our surgery was canceled tomorrow.
I knew it from when I got the call.
She just wastes our time.
I'm scared, let me think of it.
I have my confidence.
What?
Lee Young-ae.
You worry about stupid things, it's like hitting a dead frog.
Am I a dead frog?
No.
The sun feels nice.
The sun gives you vitamin D.
Lets get some vitamins.
Do your eyes hurt?
- What are you doing? - Giving her sunlight.
- Getting her vitamin D. - Go on inside.
He doesnt want it.
- Go in. - You're over reacting.
What?
That girl makes me so mad.
Why am I sweating, it's not even hot.
Do you have a cold?
- We got shots. - That was for the flu.
The shot will only cover a few colds.
One shot won't make you healthy.
It's not that after Hwi-myung ran away I felt so bad.
I lost all my strength.
You yelled at all the kids.
My mind and body are all tired.
After I woke up, I felt so weak.
So don't use so much strength.
If you want to live to 120 save your strength.
You can't run around like you're young.
You wont live long.
I know what you mean.
Forget it.
I'm better.
I'm getting my energy back.
I am a lot better.
Yoo-jung really is something.
You should of just watched.
Understand her,
she is mad at everything.
Her husband ran away and came back.
She doesn't know how to make him happy.
Should I go get a magic spell?
Stop waisting money!
What?
It's money.
I thought you would be different.
I thought you would treat me different.
The kids will only see each other on the weekends.
- That is absurd. - Hyo-joo doesn't want to come.
You don't want her too.
She needs to just be quiet.
Look at yourself.
What daughter in law would want to live with their in laws.
So they will live apart?
Dae-gi is the best husband, she needs to just move in.
Don't butt in.
There is no right or wrong.
It's their life.
At the wedding hall,
they said happy or sad.
Healthy or sick,
they promised. - They did.
They need to keep that promise.
And you?
- Why do you hate me? - Why do you scold me?
A month,
how much money do you want?
How much will you give?
$300.
- Fine. - $200.
Ok $300.
- Make me what I want. - Fix how you speak to me.
You make me really mad.
You do that too.
If you don't, I wont.
Ok.
Do you love me?
Love,
is there any left?
Do you?
- Is it left. - Yes I do.
I won't make you ribs.
But I would give you,
a kidney if you needed one.
You must hate me.
But to me,
you are my husband.
Are you drunk?
Hyo-joo.
It's been a while.
I feel like we're dating.
You're happier than me, I don't like this.
I get more upset, we are married but live separate lives.
You know that's not it.
Lets just take a month apart.
I'll leave when I can.
What if a month isn't enough?
2, 3 what if you can't leave?
How long wil I take a husband who puts his parents first?
We,
will break up one day.
- I will cheat. - I'm getting indigestion.
I closed the windows.
Then in the morning, my head hurt so much.
We should have used a better heater.
- Lets install one. - No it's ok.
There isn't a man at home.
I'll just die alone.
You need to do that?
This is nothing, I have so many bad things I say.
Tell me?
You momma's boy, you're still breast feeding.
You're the worst husband.
That's harsh.
You must do the same for me?
- I don't. - You don't?
You don't have any attachment to my parents.
It's obvious.
No,
that is the way it should be.
I thought if you could do that for me.
I was being selfish.
I understand you.
And,
I'm really sorry.
Get apples.
I'll do it.
Get the big one.
- They are the same. - No they aren't.
Lets have steak.
You make it well.
And mash potatoes.
I want some soup too.
Okay.
- We have wine? - Yes.
One steak.
No 2 steaks.
- I want dumplings. - No.
Fine.
- 3 Dae-gi. - He's coming late.
That is enough.
Hey,
this is good.
Yea pick one.
He really likes clothes.
- Who is it today? - The owner of the meat mart.
- He came yesterday. - Really?
Hey he came yesterday.
I found one better than his.
How much money are you spending?
It's just more more money for my wife when I die.
That's right.
Lately people need to dress fashionably.
- You will become a millionaire. - No what do you mean?
Not with this business.
How about this?
This looks cool.
It looks nice.
Welcome.
- Come here. - Okay.
My brother.
Treat them well.
It looks good.
You two went out together?
Give me the $500 you said you would.
- You said no. - Just give it.
- You want it? - I have nothing, give it.
Give it?
- You're funny. - Give it.
I don't have any.
- Here. - Ok.
There you go.
Not even a thanks?
It's what you owe me.
Wow he's really something.
Hello, you didn't want anyone to see.
- It's my granddaughter. - You forgot it all.
- I'll love you. - Stop joking.
- Lets talk after. - A couple should fight sometimes.
- Your life is done. - I'll make her a dad.
You and your mom are the same.
I don't owe you anything.
Honey.